[Following is a volunteer review of "Come On In" by Michelle Spratt & Vicky Donoghue.]
It is the heart-touching story of John, who suffered from vascular dementia disease. In their book, Come On In, authors Vicky Donoghue and Michelle Spratt tell us the story of a person who changed from a happy, charming, and caring person to the most devastating person anyone can ever imagine. Vicky, John's spouse, and Michelle, his daughter, narrated their suffering as vascular dementia took control of John. This book is meant for families who have suffered because of vascular dementia.
Through the book, I came to know that vascular dementia not only affects the patient but also affects close relatives badly. The authors explain how their joyful lives slowly changed into painful and suffering lives full of awkwardness. The authors also described their embarrassing situations with John in public areas. They have narrated John's curse, yelling at passersby, which tells us how an adult might get severely affected by a virus and turn into a child.
The authors have also given priceless tips for families of affected patients on how to manage things, including emergency services and medical prescriptions. They have also mentioned the financial aspect and how to seek help from organisations.
From the point of view of someone who has a loved one suffering from vascular dementia, I would like to give this book a rating of 5 out of 5. It deserves such a high rating because the authors have described the pain and suffering in so much detail. Readers will feel their pain while reading. Authors have great narration skills. The book is written in such a manner that the reader gets attached to John and starts feeling empathy for him and his family.
I found nothing negative about this book or its authors. They have explained things so well. The authors have also not tried to elongate the book's length unnecessarily. They have explained things in a short, precise, but effective manner. The best thing about the book is that it consists of all the photographic memories of occasions the authors have narrated. This gives the reader a better picture and understanding of the situation. This book needs no more suggestions to be better. Great work by the authors.
The book is well-written and professionally edited as well. It has absolutely no errors in it. The language used is pretty simple and easy to understand.
It is the heart-touching story of John, who suffered from vascular dementia disease. In their book, Come On In, authors Vicky Donoghue and Michelle Spratt tell us the story of a person who changed from a happy, charming, and caring person to the most devastating person anyone can ever imagine. Vicky, John's spouse, and Michelle, his daughter, narrated their suffering as vascular dementia took control of John. This book is meant for families who have suffered because of vascular dementia.
Through the book, I came to know that vascular dementia not only affects the patient but also affects close relatives badly. The authors explain how their joyful lives slowly changed into painful and suffering lives full of awkwardness. The authors also described their embarrassing situations with John in public areas. They have narrated John's curse, yelling at passersby, which tells us how an adult might get severely affected by a virus and turn into a child.
The authors have also given priceless tips for families of affected patients on how to manage things, including emergency services and medical prescriptions. They have also mentioned the financial aspect and how to seek help from organisations.
From the point of view of someone who has a loved one suffering from vascular dementia, I would like to give this book a rating of 5 out of 5. It deserves such a high rating because the authors have described the pain and suffering in so much detail. Readers will feel their pain while reading. Authors have great narration skills. The book is written in such a manner that the reader gets attached to John and starts feeling empathy for him and his family.
I found nothing negative about this book or its authors. They have explained things so well. The authors have also not tried to elongate the book's length unnecessarily. They have explained things in a short, precise, but effective manner. The best thing about the book is that it consists of all the photographic memories of occasions the authors have narrated. This gives the reader a better picture and understanding of the situation. This book needs no more suggestions to be better. Great work by the authors.
The book is well-written and professionally edited as well. It has absolutely no errors in it. The language used is pretty simple and easy to understand.
Ram Uday Mahajan
[Following is a volunteer review of "Come On In" by Michelle Spratt & Vicky Donoghue.]
"Come On In" by Michelle Spratt and Vicky Donoghue is an emotionally charged and deeply moving book that chronicles the challenging path of a family as they navigate the complex landscape of vascular dementia. The book provides a poignant firsthand account of their experiences, struggles, and unwavering love as they cared for their beloved husband and father, John. The book is structured into chapters. Each chapter is filled with heartfelt anecdotes, personal reflections, and valuable insights that shed light on the impact of dementia on both the individual and their family. It is a raw and honest portrayal of the relentless nature of this debilitating disease.
One of the strengths of "Come On In" is the authors' ability to balance the emotional weight of their story with practical advice and information. The inclusion of "Ten Key Points" provides valuable takeaways for readers who may find themselves facing similar challenges. From the importance of Lasting Power of Attorney to the intricacies of NHS Continuing Healthcare, these insights serve as a guide for families navigating the healthcare system. Moreover, the book doesn't merely focus on the hardships and trials; it also highlights the beautiful memories and shared moments that defined John's life. The authors vividly portray his character, emphasizing the qualities that made him a beloved husband, father, and grandparent. Their descriptions of their cherished memories of John create a heartwarming contrast to the difficulties they faced. As a reader, you can't help but be drawn into the story and empathize with the family's journey. The narrative is compelling and heartfelt, and it serves as a testament to the power of family bonds and resilience in the face of adversity.
"Come On In" is not just a memoir; it's a source of inspiration and support for families dealing with dementia. It offers a glimpse into the emotional rollercoaster that is often experienced by caregivers and family members. It also underscores the importance of raising awareness about dementia and advocating for better care and support. The inclusion of photographs featuring John and his family added greater depth and emotional connection to the narrative. I found nothing to dislike about this book. The editing was impeccable, and even after reading it carefully, I couldn't find any errors. Therefore, I would give it a perfect rating of 5 out of 5 stars.
"Come On In" is not just a memoir; it's a source of inspiration and support for families dealing with dementia. It offers a glimpse into the emotional rollercoaster that is often experienced by caregivers and family members. It also underscores the importance of raising awareness about dementia and advocating for better care and support. The inclusion of photographs featuring John and his family added greater depth and emotional connection to the narrative. I found nothing to dislike about this book. The editing was impeccable, and even after reading it carefully, I couldn't find any errors. Therefore, I would give it a perfect rating of 5 out of 5 stars.
In conclusion, "Come On In" by Michelle Spratt and Vicky Donoghue is a beautifully written and emotionally charged book that captures the essence of love, loss, and resilience in the face of one of life's most challenging trials. It is a must-read for anyone seeking understanding and insight into the impact of dementia on families and the power of unwavering love and support. Michelle and Vicky's story will undoubtedly touch your heart and stay with you long after you've turned the final page.
"Come On In" by Michelle Spratt and Vicky Donoghue is an emotionally charged and deeply moving book that chronicles the challenging path of a family as they navigate the complex landscape of vascular dementia. The book provides a poignant firsthand account of their experiences, struggles, and unwavering love as they cared for their beloved husband and father, John. The book is structured into chapters. Each chapter is filled with heartfelt anecdotes, personal reflections, and valuable insights that shed light on the impact of dementia on both the individual and their family. It is a raw and honest portrayal of the relentless nature of this debilitating disease.
One of the strengths of "Come On In" is the authors' ability to balance the emotional weight of their story with practical advice and information. The inclusion of "Ten Key Points" provides valuable takeaways for readers who may find themselves facing similar challenges. From the importance of Lasting Power of Attorney to the intricacies of NHS Continuing Healthcare, these insights serve as a guide for families navigating the healthcare system. Moreover, the book doesn't merely focus on the hardships and trials; it also highlights the beautiful memories and shared moments that defined John's life. The authors vividly portray his character, emphasizing the qualities that made him a beloved husband, father, and grandparent. Their descriptions of their cherished memories of John create a heartwarming contrast to the difficulties they faced. As a reader, you can't help but be drawn into the story and empathize with the family's journey. The narrative is compelling and heartfelt, and it serves as a testament to the power of family bonds and resilience in the face of adversity.
"Come On In" is not just a memoir; it's a source of inspiration and support for families dealing with dementia. It offers a glimpse into the emotional rollercoaster that is often experienced by caregivers and family members. It also underscores the importance of raising awareness about dementia and advocating for better care and support. The inclusion of photographs featuring John and his family added greater depth and emotional connection to the narrative. I found nothing to dislike about this book. The editing was impeccable, and even after reading it carefully, I couldn't find any errors. Therefore, I would give it a perfect rating of 5 out of 5 stars.
"Come On In" is not just a memoir; it's a source of inspiration and support for families dealing with dementia. It offers a glimpse into the emotional rollercoaster that is often experienced by caregivers and family members. It also underscores the importance of raising awareness about dementia and advocating for better care and support. The inclusion of photographs featuring John and his family added greater depth and emotional connection to the narrative. I found nothing to dislike about this book. The editing was impeccable, and even after reading it carefully, I couldn't find any errors. Therefore, I would give it a perfect rating of 5 out of 5 stars.
In conclusion, "Come On In" by Michelle Spratt and Vicky Donoghue is a beautifully written and emotionally charged book that captures the essence of love, loss, and resilience in the face of one of life's most challenging trials. It is a must-read for anyone seeking understanding and insight into the impact of dementia on families and the power of unwavering love and support. Michelle and Vicky's story will undoubtedly touch your heart and stay with you long after you've turned the final page.
Aleesha Jarral
[Following is a volunteer review of "Come On In" by Michelle Spratt & Vicky Donoghue.]
The book Come On In is written by the mother-and-daughter duo of Vicky Donoghue and Michelle Spratt. It is about their family’s struggle with vascular dementia. John, Vicky’s husband, and Michelle’s father, was a warm and friendly man who loved his family. In fact, the title of the book honours John’s tendency to offer a generous welcome to anyone who visited him. The book displays the contrast between John’s loving and polite nature before he was struck by vascular dementia and his angry, foul-mouthed, and often violent behaviour after it. It also chronicles the innumerable hurdles his family faced while trying to provide him with the appropriate care
Family members caring for patients with chronic illnesses often find themselves very isolated. Old friends stop calling or visiting, and social support decreases significantly. This is poignantly described in the book. John’s family had an especially tough time. His angry outbursts and toddler-like tantrums made even a semblance of normal social life difficult to maintain. In the midst of such loneliness, there was the occasional kindness of strangers, like a hug from an understanding taxi driver. All long-term carers will recognize this phenomenon.
It is touching to see how Vicky and her children rallied around John to do the best they could. Adversity can bring out either the best or the worst in us. In the case of this family, it brought out their best. Michelle, who was not used to standing up to authority, became a fierce advocate for her father’s care. Vicky learned how to get through the worst of John’s behaviours by remembering his sweet nature before the disease changed him. At the end of the book, there is a set of resources for families getting care from the NHS (UK). There are also tips and tricks for making the caring journey safer and less stressful
I could not find anything wrong with the book.
I rate the book 5 out of 5 stars. It is exceptionally well-edited. In writing this book, the authors had set out to provide support and validation to other carers going through a similar ordeal. By being courageous and vulnerable enough to share their most painful experiences, they have done just that. Even readers who have never needed to care for a sick family member can take the help of this book to develop greater empathy for affected families
This book is a must-read for families of patients with dementia. It will also be useful to those caring for chronically ill loved ones. It is also an excellent resource for those readers who want to understand the problems faced by such families
The book Come On In is written by the mother-and-daughter duo of Vicky Donoghue and Michelle Spratt. It is about their family’s struggle with vascular dementia. John, Vicky’s husband, and Michelle’s father, was a warm and friendly man who loved his family. In fact, the title of the book honours John’s tendency to offer a generous welcome to anyone who visited him. The book displays the contrast between John’s loving and polite nature before he was struck by vascular dementia and his angry, foul-mouthed, and often violent behaviour after it. It also chronicles the innumerable hurdles his family faced while trying to provide him with the appropriate care
Family members caring for patients with chronic illnesses often find themselves very isolated. Old friends stop calling or visiting, and social support decreases significantly. This is poignantly described in the book. John’s family had an especially tough time. His angry outbursts and toddler-like tantrums made even a semblance of normal social life difficult to maintain. In the midst of such loneliness, there was the occasional kindness of strangers, like a hug from an understanding taxi driver. All long-term carers will recognize this phenomenon.
It is touching to see how Vicky and her children rallied around John to do the best they could. Adversity can bring out either the best or the worst in us. In the case of this family, it brought out their best. Michelle, who was not used to standing up to authority, became a fierce advocate for her father’s care. Vicky learned how to get through the worst of John’s behaviours by remembering his sweet nature before the disease changed him. At the end of the book, there is a set of resources for families getting care from the NHS (UK). There are also tips and tricks for making the caring journey safer and less stressful
I could not find anything wrong with the book.
I rate the book 5 out of 5 stars. It is exceptionally well-edited. In writing this book, the authors had set out to provide support and validation to other carers going through a similar ordeal. By being courageous and vulnerable enough to share their most painful experiences, they have done just that. Even readers who have never needed to care for a sick family member can take the help of this book to develop greater empathy for affected families
This book is a must-read for families of patients with dementia. It will also be useful to those caring for chronically ill loved ones. It is also an excellent resource for those readers who want to understand the problems faced by such families
Meenakshi Bhatt 1
[Following is a volunteer review of "Come On In" by Michelle Spratt & Vicky Donoghue.]
We never want our loved ones to experience pain and suffering in life. Such is the story of John Robert Pascal Donoghue, who was diagnosed with dementia. Sharing his journey, the mother-daughter duo penned his memoir "Come On In". Michael Donoghue is the daughter of John, and Vicky Donoghue is his wife. Through this book, they share the challenges, triumphs, and emotions that come with a family member's journey through dementia.
The book shares the intimate journey at various stages of disease, shedding light on the gradual fading of memories and the evolving dynamics within the family. The authors share how dementia diminished John's cognitive skills, and no operation was performed prior to his declining health. Frustrations, heartache, and moments of unexpected sadness are reflected throughout the book. In the darkness, authors capture the moments of small victories, the bittersweet moments, and the power of love and compassion in the face of adversity.
The book portrayed the challenges faced by families dealing with dementia in a relatable way and fostered a sense of community for those navigating through similar journeys. In the midst of overwhelming challenges, this book stands as a beacon of hope.
I liked the author's writing style, which portrayed the transformative journey that both people with dementia and family members take. One more thing I learned from this book: Though memories fade, the power of love remains forever.
There was nothing I disliked about this book. It is professionally edited with no grammatical mistakes. I rate this book five out of five stars for capturing the delicate balance between fading recollections of the past and the heartfelt moments shared in the present. It is a must-read for anyone seeking insights into the world of dementia and the profound impact it has on both individuals and family members.
We never want our loved ones to experience pain and suffering in life. Such is the story of John Robert Pascal Donoghue, who was diagnosed with dementia. Sharing his journey, the mother-daughter duo penned his memoir "Come On In". Michael Donoghue is the daughter of John, and Vicky Donoghue is his wife. Through this book, they share the challenges, triumphs, and emotions that come with a family member's journey through dementia.
The book shares the intimate journey at various stages of disease, shedding light on the gradual fading of memories and the evolving dynamics within the family. The authors share how dementia diminished John's cognitive skills, and no operation was performed prior to his declining health. Frustrations, heartache, and moments of unexpected sadness are reflected throughout the book. In the darkness, authors capture the moments of small victories, the bittersweet moments, and the power of love and compassion in the face of adversity.
The book portrayed the challenges faced by families dealing with dementia in a relatable way and fostered a sense of community for those navigating through similar journeys. In the midst of overwhelming challenges, this book stands as a beacon of hope.
I liked the author's writing style, which portrayed the transformative journey that both people with dementia and family members take. One more thing I learned from this book: Though memories fade, the power of love remains forever.
There was nothing I disliked about this book. It is professionally edited with no grammatical mistakes. I rate this book five out of five stars for capturing the delicate balance between fading recollections of the past and the heartfelt moments shared in the present. It is a must-read for anyone seeking insights into the world of dementia and the profound impact it has on both individuals and family members.
Hy Be
[Following is a volunteer review of "Come On In" by Michelle Spratt & Vicky Donoghue.]
Come On In is the heartbreaking story of John, who suffered from vascular dementia. The book is co-authored by Vicky Donoghue and Michelle Spratt, John's wife and daughter, respectively. They take turns narrating the story. They start by describing John's original magnetic personality before dementia took over. They talk about his magical aura and heartfelt bonds with everyone who ever crossed his path. Later, they describe how slowly the symptoms of forgetfulness appeared and grew wildly. It turned John into something totally opposite of his original personality and something unimaginable for the family. In the concluding part, the authors provided helpful guidelines for managing vascular dementia patients
This was a very heartbreaking story. I could not control my tears while going through the pages. It felt so bad to see such a generous and amiable person turn aggressive and helpless. When we think of dementia, we only think of memory loss. But what that memory loss actually means was totally clarified by this book. The part where I learned that John could not eat because he forgot how to swallow was shocking to me
I also felt for the family members, especially the wife, who handled him at the worst of times and with the worst of behaviors. Hands down on how they handled his behavior in public. Also, in the book, there is no definite partition between the narration by two authors; it's upon us to understand the shift, but it's also very easily understandable. I loved this book, and I thank the authors for thinking about writing it. It will surely help others, fulfilling the intention with which it is written.
With no doubt, I rate this book a 5 out of 5 stars. I didn't find any spelling or grammatical errors throughout the book. So, this book was exceptionally well edited
I recommend this book to anyone who wants to know about vascular dementia.
Come On In is the heartbreaking story of John, who suffered from vascular dementia. The book is co-authored by Vicky Donoghue and Michelle Spratt, John's wife and daughter, respectively. They take turns narrating the story. They start by describing John's original magnetic personality before dementia took over. They talk about his magical aura and heartfelt bonds with everyone who ever crossed his path. Later, they describe how slowly the symptoms of forgetfulness appeared and grew wildly. It turned John into something totally opposite of his original personality and something unimaginable for the family. In the concluding part, the authors provided helpful guidelines for managing vascular dementia patients
This was a very heartbreaking story. I could not control my tears while going through the pages. It felt so bad to see such a generous and amiable person turn aggressive and helpless. When we think of dementia, we only think of memory loss. But what that memory loss actually means was totally clarified by this book. The part where I learned that John could not eat because he forgot how to swallow was shocking to me
I also felt for the family members, especially the wife, who handled him at the worst of times and with the worst of behaviors. Hands down on how they handled his behavior in public. Also, in the book, there is no definite partition between the narration by two authors; it's upon us to understand the shift, but it's also very easily understandable. I loved this book, and I thank the authors for thinking about writing it. It will surely help others, fulfilling the intention with which it is written.
With no doubt, I rate this book a 5 out of 5 stars. I didn't find any spelling or grammatical errors throughout the book. So, this book was exceptionally well edited
I recommend this book to anyone who wants to know about vascular dementia.
Iota
[Following is a volunteer review of "Come On In" by Michelle Spratt & Vicky Donoghue.]
Name of the book: Come On In Authors' names: Vicky Donoghue & Michelle Spratt Summary: The book "Come On In: To Our World Of Living With Vascular Dementia", written by Vicky Donoghue & Michelle Spratt, is a non-fiction book and memoir about John, Vicky's husband, who passed away of Vascular Dementia in 2019. This book is the first memoir/book of Michelle Spratt. Coming from a family that has already gone through caring and loving for someone with Vascular Dementia, the bits of advice given in the book are reliable, trusted and proven. On the one hand, the hefty hospital bills make a suffering family shattered and on the other, the emotional shock that they go through becomes unbearable. It is not easy to see a loved one drift away even when they are in front of you but, unable to recognize anyone. Such people sure need special care and emotional support so that they aren't left alone in their times of need. Before I came across this book I knew close to nothing about dementia. This book is full of knowledge about the same. Positive: I hope that this book will be a comfort, support, and guide to those who need it. I liked that this book focuses on being a family's strength in times of need. Reading about a family's experience with Vascular Dementia was therapeutic enough because it provided a reference to correlate with our circumstances. Negative: It was really saddening to hear about the transformation of John from a perfectly fine person to someone totally different. In my opinion, there was nothing more than this that could be put into this section of the review.
I'd rate this book 5 out of 5 because this book has taught me a lot about caregiving, dementia, and the struggles a family go through when someone in the family is suffering from Vascular Dementia. Recommendation: I would recommend this book to someone who is dealing with a loved one with dementia. It will reassure you, help you with your anticipations and give you an understanding of the possible care available out there. This is a great book for all the caregivers out there. It will help them understand what are the expectations patients and their families have related to the cure of vascular dementia. Errors: I didn't find any errors in the book. The book is edited flawlessly.
Name of the book: Come On In Authors' names: Vicky Donoghue & Michelle Spratt Summary: The book "Come On In: To Our World Of Living With Vascular Dementia", written by Vicky Donoghue & Michelle Spratt, is a non-fiction book and memoir about John, Vicky's husband, who passed away of Vascular Dementia in 2019. This book is the first memoir/book of Michelle Spratt. Coming from a family that has already gone through caring and loving for someone with Vascular Dementia, the bits of advice given in the book are reliable, trusted and proven. On the one hand, the hefty hospital bills make a suffering family shattered and on the other, the emotional shock that they go through becomes unbearable. It is not easy to see a loved one drift away even when they are in front of you but, unable to recognize anyone. Such people sure need special care and emotional support so that they aren't left alone in their times of need. Before I came across this book I knew close to nothing about dementia. This book is full of knowledge about the same. Positive: I hope that this book will be a comfort, support, and guide to those who need it. I liked that this book focuses on being a family's strength in times of need. Reading about a family's experience with Vascular Dementia was therapeutic enough because it provided a reference to correlate with our circumstances. Negative: It was really saddening to hear about the transformation of John from a perfectly fine person to someone totally different. In my opinion, there was nothing more than this that could be put into this section of the review.
I'd rate this book 5 out of 5 because this book has taught me a lot about caregiving, dementia, and the struggles a family go through when someone in the family is suffering from Vascular Dementia. Recommendation: I would recommend this book to someone who is dealing with a loved one with dementia. It will reassure you, help you with your anticipations and give you an understanding of the possible care available out there. This is a great book for all the caregivers out there. It will help them understand what are the expectations patients and their families have related to the cure of vascular dementia. Errors: I didn't find any errors in the book. The book is edited flawlessly.
Priyansh_Mishra
[Following is a volunteer review of "Come On In" by Michelle Spratt & Vicky Donoghue.]
Come On In is a book authored by a mother and a daughter, Vicky Donoghue and Michelle Spratt. This book is written in the loving memory of John, a devoted husband, a wonderful, caring dad, and a grandad, as mentioned by the authors.
The book starts with a description of John's personality before being diagnosed as a patient with vascular dementia. The authors characterize him as friendly and easy-going. He used to be the life of any event. But slowly in his late 50s, the symptoms of dementia started to appear. His personality started changing. He began to forget things, become violent and anxious, incontinent, and even began to hallucinate. All this made it difficult for the author. Further in the book, the steps taken by the author to treat John, the emotional breakdowns they faced, the situations where they had to be stubborn, and finally the outcome of all these hardships are explained. This book is written in honor of John and also to comfort the readers, that if they're facing such a situation, they're not alone, and they will find a way to cope too, just as the authors did.
Firstly, I appreciate the readiness of the authors, i.e., the mother and the daughter to write a book in John's loving memory. They took the situation they faced positively and enlightened many, by showing the ways one can deal with, not only such situations but with any kind of hardship. The experiences they had and the tips they've shared are of a lot of practical importance. One can find his way to cope by reading this. Reading how John's friendly, magnetic personality changed to harsh- incontinent was sad. Even more painful was his behavior towards his family, which once was considered ideal by others. The pain and emotional breakdowns the author faced here, as per explained in the book, felt so real.
Apart from sharing just their emotions and experiences, the authors have shared 10 key points briefing the helplines and options available in the outer world, which can be utilized whenever someone faces any such thing. I must genuinely say, this is not just a memoir, but a practical guide with many life lessons. Talking on the educational side, I've learned many new things about this devastating disease, dementia. How it develops, what are its symptoms, what warning signs are, everything is so goodly explained. The authors have also shared their family photographs having good memories. This made it easy to picture the authors' words.
Overall, there was nothing I disliked about the book. It was an inspiring and knowledgeable read. The book is full of emotions and practical tips. Surely, the read was worth it.
The book was exceptionally well edited, as I didn't find any errors or grammatical mistakes. Due to the above-mentioned reasons, I rate this book 5 out of 5 stars. I would love to recommend this book to people with any such devastating disease in their relations. It can also be read by readers with a medical background, as they can get an excellent idea about dementia.
Come On In is a book authored by a mother and a daughter, Vicky Donoghue and Michelle Spratt. This book is written in the loving memory of John, a devoted husband, a wonderful, caring dad, and a grandad, as mentioned by the authors.
The book starts with a description of John's personality before being diagnosed as a patient with vascular dementia. The authors characterize him as friendly and easy-going. He used to be the life of any event. But slowly in his late 50s, the symptoms of dementia started to appear. His personality started changing. He began to forget things, become violent and anxious, incontinent, and even began to hallucinate. All this made it difficult for the author. Further in the book, the steps taken by the author to treat John, the emotional breakdowns they faced, the situations where they had to be stubborn, and finally the outcome of all these hardships are explained. This book is written in honor of John and also to comfort the readers, that if they're facing such a situation, they're not alone, and they will find a way to cope too, just as the authors did.
Firstly, I appreciate the readiness of the authors, i.e., the mother and the daughter to write a book in John's loving memory. They took the situation they faced positively and enlightened many, by showing the ways one can deal with, not only such situations but with any kind of hardship. The experiences they had and the tips they've shared are of a lot of practical importance. One can find his way to cope by reading this. Reading how John's friendly, magnetic personality changed to harsh- incontinent was sad. Even more painful was his behavior towards his family, which once was considered ideal by others. The pain and emotional breakdowns the author faced here, as per explained in the book, felt so real.
Apart from sharing just their emotions and experiences, the authors have shared 10 key points briefing the helplines and options available in the outer world, which can be utilized whenever someone faces any such thing. I must genuinely say, this is not just a memoir, but a practical guide with many life lessons. Talking on the educational side, I've learned many new things about this devastating disease, dementia. How it develops, what are its symptoms, what warning signs are, everything is so goodly explained. The authors have also shared their family photographs having good memories. This made it easy to picture the authors' words.
Overall, there was nothing I disliked about the book. It was an inspiring and knowledgeable read. The book is full of emotions and practical tips. Surely, the read was worth it.
The book was exceptionally well edited, as I didn't find any errors or grammatical mistakes. Due to the above-mentioned reasons, I rate this book 5 out of 5 stars. I would love to recommend this book to people with any such devastating disease in their relations. It can also be read by readers with a medical background, as they can get an excellent idea about dementia.
Achal